Monday, March 24, 2008

BDSM Rituals

Before we begin speaking about rituals BDSM involves we should first of all define what a ritual is.

Ritual is a formal, recurrent ceremony. In other words a ritual is consequence of some certain actions you intentionally repeat again and again. Actually rituals are intended to be repeated.

BDSM rituals as well as all others include a certain consequence of actions performed either by Dominant or by the submissive in particular situations such as greeting, going to bed, getting ready for sex, and others. Besides actions BDSM rituals often include various BDSM toys - handcuffs, flogs, blinfolders and others - everything depends on partner's preferences.

What is good about BDSM rituals?

Rituals are pleasant for both participants

Rituals help to easily pass from everyday relationships to relationships between a Dom and a Sub

Rituals help to avoid some other, less pleasant actions aimed at achieving the same purpose, that is to become a Top and a Bottom

Rituals create atmosphere of intimacy and help both partners become closer to each other.

Rituals make both partners feel more comfortable. When beginning to perform a ritual a person feels calm and comfortable as he or she is aware of the purpose of the ritual and of means this purpose is going to be achieved with.

1 comment:

MasterSSpider said...

Thank You, it seems in the last few weeks, I have been overwhelmed with sessions that involve rituals. My feelings are every thing I do as a Dom is a ritual. Just as You Explained. Thank You

Daily Ritual

say mantra
"My master loves me... my master wants me... my master is my master because he wants to be and chooses to be, and he loves me for me"


Roll a d12

1: (Chastity)Wear a chastity belt all day (no exceptions)
2: (Practice)Roll a d20, do the muscle squeezing practice using your vibe, turned on, that many times
3: (Bondage)Wear the rope on your breasts all day (no exceptions) if you go out, wear thick clothes
4: (Release)Roll a d4, cum that many times today, before bed, and if you can't, finish the rest tomorrow
5: (Chance)Roll again 2 times, reroll on another until you get 2 numbers other than 5... do both!
6: (Preperation)Roll a d4, wear your buttplug that we got that many hours
7: (Softness)Wear your black lace all day (no exceptions)
8: (Reflection)Put on some makeup, get all nice and pretty for Master
9: (Pride)Wear your waist chain and anklets all day (no exceptions)
10: (Sensitivity)Roll a d10, and wear your soft nipple clamps and your clit clamp for that many minutes
11: (Denial)Roll a d4, and then work hard on getting so close to cumming... but you're not allowed to cum for the number on the die * 15 minutes (1: 15, 2:30, 3:45, 4:60)
12: (Knowledge)Write for me 1 paragrah related to D/s or BDSM, it can be a fantasy, something you heard about that you liked, or just something in general that you'd like me to read.

Daily Rituals Done

Week of - 3/19 to 3/25

3/19 - 3(Bondage)
3/20 - 5(Chance)- 9(Pride),2(Practice) -16 times
3/21 - 2(Practice) - 3 times
3/22 - 5(Chance) - 7(Softness),9(Pride)
3/23 - 2(Practice) - 4 times
3/24 - 8(Reflection)
3/25 - 1(Chastity)

My cuffs mantra

"I do this for my Master, because He has captured my heart and my body"

the mantra i am to say both before and after my bath or shower

For my Master I bathe myself
So that I may smell sweet
So that I may feel clean
So that I may taste good
So that I will be healthy
And so that he will be Happy
That I bathed myself

the words of the mantra i am to speak during my nail polish ritual

first half
To my Master I give my love
To my Master I give my devotion
To my Master I give my submission
To my Master I give my strength
To my Master I give my weakness
To my Master I give my worries
To my Master I give my fears
To my Master I give my happiness
To my Master I give my sadness
To my Master I give my everything

second half
My Master gives to me His love
My Master gives to me His strength
My Master gives to me His happiness
My Master gives to me His care
My Master gives to me His guidance
My Master gives to me His friendship
My Master gives to me confidence
My Master gives to me knowledge
My Master gives to me faith
My Master gives to me Himself