Monday, March 24, 2008

Cuffs Ritual

(CrimsonDragon) wear your cuffs on your wrists from now on around the house... only around the house
(CrimsonDragon) you may remove them to sleep if you need, but make sure and put them back on... or if they get physically uncomfortably (not mentally)
when you put them on... say to yourself... "I do this for my master, because he has captured my heart and my body"

My Bath Ritual etc

(MyDragon) pet... I don't want this to be degrading
(MyDragon) but before bathing, and after...
* quiet`passion{MD} listens
(MyDragon) say your bath mantra
(MyDragon) a shower counts as bathing, even if it's only doing the general wash off while in the shower
* quiet`passion{MD} blushes at taste good
(MyDragon) like we talked about before
(quiet`passion{MD}) yes Master
* MyDragon smiles and hugs you softly
(MyDragon) Both are to be done on tuesdays, nails and shower... and I'll trust you to do so, without fail, because you love me, and because I know you are a good girl when you truely try
(MyDragon) If you are in too much pain for the shower, you may speak the words before standing to go, and after coming back to rest, otherwise, I want you to do so before stepping in, and right after getting out
(MyDragon) but you still have to at least get in the shower and bathe, ok pet?

(MyDragon) on tuesdays, you must change nail polish, even if you put back on the exact type you had on before
(MyDragon) do you accept your tuesdays as theys tand, my love?
(quiet`passion{MD}) yes my Master
(MyDragon) Is there anything you wish to request me to change?
(quiet`passion{MD}) no Master , not at all
(MyDragon) After doing so for a month... no less, and trying it to see what you think and how things go
(MyDragon) if you come upon anything then that you'd like to request to change, can talk about it then, ok my love?
(quiet`passion{MD}) ok Master
(quiet`passion{MD}) do have one question
(MyDragon) if you want to work on things on tuesday, you may... but you are not oblidged to do so
* MyDragon listens
(quiet`passion{MD}) with the bath , does that include doing things like the body lotions and podwer and such too? do You want that ?
(MyDragon) the full hygene
(MyDragon) the bath is the main part, but the rest is part of bathing
(MyDragon) you're to shave or trim every two weeks as well
(MyDragon) at least

My Nail ritual and other Tuesday Stuff

(MyDragon) On tuesdays, you are not bound by any other task or assignment other than what I tell you now, and perhaps in the future
(MyDragon) Tuesday is your day to relax... save what I request.. and being here for SP and libby
(MyDragon) If anyone request otherwise, tell them such, no exceptions, if you have something due with someone, and it goes over a tuesday, tell them day more, as tuesday is pretty much taken out ofyour week
(MyDragon) Tuesday will be both your nail day, and your shower day
(MyDragon) And always in that order... even if you have to kick people out of rooms
(MyDragon) Can do nails when you first wake up, and then shower before you fall asleep if you want, or nails on the toilet before getting into the shower
(MyDragon) up to you.. just remember, that nails take time to dry
(MyDragon) when you're doing your nails, color choice is yours, as I think you look lovey, in most nail colors
(MyDragon) just no black, unless it's punishment and I have demon pain't them
(MyDragon) you may do yournails while here, if Sir or libby allow
(MyDragon) if libby is busy scening and just wanting to chat, feel free to do your nails
(MyDragon) am just saying, you don't get tuesday off of libby and Sir, hehe
(MyDragon) when you're doing your nails...
(MyDragon) I want you to fully remove the polish one nail at a time
(MyDragon) while removing, from cuticle to tip
(MyDragon) Say the first part of your nail mantra
(MyDragon) one for each finger, repeat it over until the nail is clear of polish
(MyDragon) if it takes only one stroke, do it again, so that there are at least two
(MyDragon) I believe removing nail polish takes even more, but I don't know what remover or polish you use
(MyDragon) so if you start on your left hand... on your pinky, you'll repeat 'To my Master I give my love'
(MyDragon) until your pinky is clean of polish
(quiet`passion{MD}) understood
(MyDragon) and when you put the next polish on... start with the same finger you started removing with, and do them in the same order
(MyDragon) saying the second half of your mantra
(MyDragon) so the same finger will receiv your love, and my love, your devotion and my strength, your submission and my happiness, etc
(quiet`passion{MD}) yes Master
(MyDragon) ending with the finger that gives your everything, and gives me to you

BDSM Rituals

Before we begin speaking about rituals BDSM involves we should first of all define what a ritual is.

Ritual is a formal, recurrent ceremony. In other words a ritual is consequence of some certain actions you intentionally repeat again and again. Actually rituals are intended to be repeated.

BDSM rituals as well as all others include a certain consequence of actions performed either by Dominant or by the submissive in particular situations such as greeting, going to bed, getting ready for sex, and others. Besides actions BDSM rituals often include various BDSM toys - handcuffs, flogs, blinfolders and others - everything depends on partner's preferences.

What is good about BDSM rituals?

Rituals are pleasant for both participants

Rituals help to easily pass from everyday relationships to relationships between a Dom and a Sub

Rituals help to avoid some other, less pleasant actions aimed at achieving the same purpose, that is to become a Top and a Bottom

Rituals create atmosphere of intimacy and help both partners become closer to each other.

Rituals make both partners feel more comfortable. When beginning to perform a ritual a person feels calm and comfortable as he or she is aware of the purpose of the ritual and of means this purpose is going to be achieved with.

Daily Ritual

say mantra
"My master loves me... my master wants me... my master is my master because he wants to be and chooses to be, and he loves me for me"


Roll a d12

1: (Chastity)Wear a chastity belt all day (no exceptions)
2: (Practice)Roll a d20, do the muscle squeezing practice using your vibe, turned on, that many times
3: (Bondage)Wear the rope on your breasts all day (no exceptions) if you go out, wear thick clothes
4: (Release)Roll a d4, cum that many times today, before bed, and if you can't, finish the rest tomorrow
5: (Chance)Roll again 2 times, reroll on another until you get 2 numbers other than 5... do both!
6: (Preperation)Roll a d4, wear your buttplug that we got that many hours
7: (Softness)Wear your black lace all day (no exceptions)
8: (Reflection)Put on some makeup, get all nice and pretty for Master
9: (Pride)Wear your waist chain and anklets all day (no exceptions)
10: (Sensitivity)Roll a d10, and wear your soft nipple clamps and your clit clamp for that many minutes
11: (Denial)Roll a d4, and then work hard on getting so close to cumming... but you're not allowed to cum for the number on the die * 15 minutes (1: 15, 2:30, 3:45, 4:60)
12: (Knowledge)Write for me 1 paragrah related to D/s or BDSM, it can be a fantasy, something you heard about that you liked, or just something in general that you'd like me to read.

Daily Rituals Done

Week of - 3/19 to 3/25

3/19 - 3(Bondage)
3/20 - 5(Chance)- 9(Pride),2(Practice) -16 times
3/21 - 2(Practice) - 3 times
3/22 - 5(Chance) - 7(Softness),9(Pride)
3/23 - 2(Practice) - 4 times
3/24 - 8(Reflection)
3/25 - 1(Chastity)

My cuffs mantra

"I do this for my Master, because He has captured my heart and my body"

the mantra i am to say both before and after my bath or shower

For my Master I bathe myself
So that I may smell sweet
So that I may feel clean
So that I may taste good
So that I will be healthy
And so that he will be Happy
That I bathed myself

the words of the mantra i am to speak during my nail polish ritual

first half
To my Master I give my love
To my Master I give my devotion
To my Master I give my submission
To my Master I give my strength
To my Master I give my weakness
To my Master I give my worries
To my Master I give my fears
To my Master I give my happiness
To my Master I give my sadness
To my Master I give my everything

second half
My Master gives to me His love
My Master gives to me His strength
My Master gives to me His happiness
My Master gives to me His care
My Master gives to me His guidance
My Master gives to me His friendship
My Master gives to me confidence
My Master gives to me knowledge
My Master gives to me faith
My Master gives to me Himself