(CrimsonDragon) wear your cuffs on your wrists from now on around the house... only around the house
(CrimsonDragon) you may remove them to sleep if you need, but make sure and put them back on... or if they get physically uncomfortably (not mentally)
when you put them on... say to yourself... "I do this for my master, because he has captured my heart and my body"
Monday, March 24, 2008
My Bath Ritual etc
(MyDragon) pet... I don't want this to be degrading
(MyDragon) but before bathing, and after...
* quiet`passion{MD} listens
(MyDragon) say your bath mantra
(MyDragon) a shower counts as bathing, even if it's only doing the general wash off while in the shower
* quiet`passion{MD} blushes at taste good
(MyDragon) like we talked about before
(quiet`passion{MD}) yes Master
* MyDragon smiles and hugs you softly
(MyDragon) Both are to be done on tuesdays, nails and shower... and I'll trust you to do so, without fail, because you love me, and because I know you are a good girl when you truely try
(MyDragon) If you are in too much pain for the shower, you may speak the words before standing to go, and after coming back to rest, otherwise, I want you to do so before stepping in, and right after getting out
(MyDragon) but you still have to at least get in the shower and bathe, ok pet?
(MyDragon) on tuesdays, you must change nail polish, even if you put back on the exact type you had on before
(MyDragon) do you accept your tuesdays as theys tand, my love?
(quiet`passion{MD}) yes my Master
(MyDragon) Is there anything you wish to request me to change?
(quiet`passion{MD}) no Master , not at all
(MyDragon) After doing so for a month... no less, and trying it to see what you think and how things go
(MyDragon) if you come upon anything then that you'd like to request to change, can talk about it then, ok my love?
(quiet`passion{MD}) ok Master
(quiet`passion{MD}) do have one question
(MyDragon) if you want to work on things on tuesday, you may... but you are not oblidged to do so
* MyDragon listens
(quiet`passion{MD}) with the bath , does that include doing things like the body lotions and podwer and such too? do You want that ?
(MyDragon) the full hygene
(MyDragon) the bath is the main part, but the rest is part of bathing
(MyDragon) you're to shave or trim every two weeks as well
(MyDragon) at least
(MyDragon) but before bathing, and after...
* quiet`passion{MD} listens
(MyDragon) say your bath mantra
(MyDragon) a shower counts as bathing, even if it's only doing the general wash off while in the shower
* quiet`passion{MD} blushes at taste good
(MyDragon) like we talked about before
(quiet`passion{MD}) yes Master
* MyDragon smiles and hugs you softly
(MyDragon) Both are to be done on tuesdays, nails and shower... and I'll trust you to do so, without fail, because you love me, and because I know you are a good girl when you truely try
(MyDragon) If you are in too much pain for the shower, you may speak the words before standing to go, and after coming back to rest, otherwise, I want you to do so before stepping in, and right after getting out
(MyDragon) but you still have to at least get in the shower and bathe, ok pet?
(MyDragon) on tuesdays, you must change nail polish, even if you put back on the exact type you had on before
(MyDragon) do you accept your tuesdays as theys tand, my love?
(quiet`passion{MD}) yes my Master
(MyDragon) Is there anything you wish to request me to change?
(quiet`passion{MD}) no Master , not at all
(MyDragon) After doing so for a month... no less, and trying it to see what you think and how things go
(MyDragon) if you come upon anything then that you'd like to request to change, can talk about it then, ok my love?
(quiet`passion{MD}) ok Master
(quiet`passion{MD}) do have one question
(MyDragon) if you want to work on things on tuesday, you may... but you are not oblidged to do so
* MyDragon listens
(quiet`passion{MD}) with the bath , does that include doing things like the body lotions and podwer and such too? do You want that ?
(MyDragon) the full hygene
(MyDragon) the bath is the main part, but the rest is part of bathing
(MyDragon) you're to shave or trim every two weeks as well
(MyDragon) at least
My Nail ritual and other Tuesday Stuff
(MyDragon) On tuesdays, you are not bound by any other task or assignment other than what I tell you now, and perhaps in the future
(MyDragon) Tuesday is your day to relax... save what I request.. and being here for SP and libby
(MyDragon) If anyone request otherwise, tell them such, no exceptions, if you have something due with someone, and it goes over a tuesday, tell them day more, as tuesday is pretty much taken out ofyour week
(MyDragon) Tuesday will be both your nail day, and your shower day
(MyDragon) And always in that order... even if you have to kick people out of rooms
(MyDragon) Can do nails when you first wake up, and then shower before you fall asleep if you want, or nails on the toilet before getting into the shower
(MyDragon) up to you.. just remember, that nails take time to dry
(MyDragon) when you're doing your nails, color choice is yours, as I think you look lovey, in most nail colors
(MyDragon) just no black, unless it's punishment and I have demon pain't them
(MyDragon) you may do yournails while here, if Sir or libby allow
(MyDragon) if libby is busy scening and just wanting to chat, feel free to do your nails
(MyDragon) am just saying, you don't get tuesday off of libby and Sir, hehe
(MyDragon) when you're doing your nails...
(MyDragon) I want you to fully remove the polish one nail at a time
(MyDragon) while removing, from cuticle to tip
(MyDragon) Say the first part of your nail mantra
(MyDragon) one for each finger, repeat it over until the nail is clear of polish
(MyDragon) if it takes only one stroke, do it again, so that there are at least two
(MyDragon) I believe removing nail polish takes even more, but I don't know what remover or polish you use
(MyDragon) so if you start on your left hand... on your pinky, you'll repeat 'To my Master I give my love'
(MyDragon) until your pinky is clean of polish
(quiet`passion{MD}) understood
(MyDragon) and when you put the next polish on... start with the same finger you started removing with, and do them in the same order
(MyDragon) saying the second half of your mantra
(MyDragon) so the same finger will receiv your love, and my love, your devotion and my strength, your submission and my happiness, etc
(quiet`passion{MD}) yes Master
(MyDragon) ending with the finger that gives your everything, and gives me to you
(MyDragon) Tuesday is your day to relax... save what I request.. and being here for SP and libby
(MyDragon) If anyone request otherwise, tell them such, no exceptions, if you have something due with someone, and it goes over a tuesday, tell them day more, as tuesday is pretty much taken out ofyour week
(MyDragon) Tuesday will be both your nail day, and your shower day
(MyDragon) And always in that order... even if you have to kick people out of rooms
(MyDragon) Can do nails when you first wake up, and then shower before you fall asleep if you want, or nails on the toilet before getting into the shower
(MyDragon) up to you.. just remember, that nails take time to dry
(MyDragon) when you're doing your nails, color choice is yours, as I think you look lovey, in most nail colors
(MyDragon) just no black, unless it's punishment and I have demon pain't them
(MyDragon) you may do yournails while here, if Sir or libby allow
(MyDragon) if libby is busy scening and just wanting to chat, feel free to do your nails
(MyDragon) am just saying, you don't get tuesday off of libby and Sir, hehe
(MyDragon) when you're doing your nails...
(MyDragon) I want you to fully remove the polish one nail at a time
(MyDragon) while removing, from cuticle to tip
(MyDragon) Say the first part of your nail mantra
(MyDragon) one for each finger, repeat it over until the nail is clear of polish
(MyDragon) if it takes only one stroke, do it again, so that there are at least two
(MyDragon) I believe removing nail polish takes even more, but I don't know what remover or polish you use
(MyDragon) so if you start on your left hand... on your pinky, you'll repeat 'To my Master I give my love'
(MyDragon) until your pinky is clean of polish
(quiet`passion{MD}) understood
(MyDragon) and when you put the next polish on... start with the same finger you started removing with, and do them in the same order
(MyDragon) saying the second half of your mantra
(MyDragon) so the same finger will receiv your love, and my love, your devotion and my strength, your submission and my happiness, etc
(quiet`passion{MD}) yes Master
(MyDragon) ending with the finger that gives your everything, and gives me to you
BDSM Rituals
Before we begin speaking about rituals BDSM involves we should first of all define what a ritual is.
Ritual is a formal, recurrent ceremony. In other words a ritual is consequence of some certain actions you intentionally repeat again and again. Actually rituals are intended to be repeated.
BDSM rituals as well as all others include a certain consequence of actions performed either by Dominant or by the submissive in particular situations such as greeting, going to bed, getting ready for sex, and others. Besides actions BDSM rituals often include various BDSM toys - handcuffs, flogs, blinfolders and others - everything depends on partner's preferences.
What is good about BDSM rituals?
Rituals are pleasant for both participants
Rituals help to easily pass from everyday relationships to relationships between a Dom and a Sub
Rituals help to avoid some other, less pleasant actions aimed at achieving the same purpose, that is to become a Top and a Bottom
Rituals create atmosphere of intimacy and help both partners become closer to each other.
Rituals make both partners feel more comfortable. When beginning to perform a ritual a person feels calm and comfortable as he or she is aware of the purpose of the ritual and of means this purpose is going to be achieved with.
Ritual is a formal, recurrent ceremony. In other words a ritual is consequence of some certain actions you intentionally repeat again and again. Actually rituals are intended to be repeated.
BDSM rituals as well as all others include a certain consequence of actions performed either by Dominant or by the submissive in particular situations such as greeting, going to bed, getting ready for sex, and others. Besides actions BDSM rituals often include various BDSM toys - handcuffs, flogs, blinfolders and others - everything depends on partner's preferences.
What is good about BDSM rituals?
Rituals are pleasant for both participants
Rituals help to easily pass from everyday relationships to relationships between a Dom and a Sub
Rituals help to avoid some other, less pleasant actions aimed at achieving the same purpose, that is to become a Top and a Bottom
Rituals create atmosphere of intimacy and help both partners become closer to each other.
Rituals make both partners feel more comfortable. When beginning to perform a ritual a person feels calm and comfortable as he or she is aware of the purpose of the ritual and of means this purpose is going to be achieved with.
